How to raise a child melancholic?
• How to raise a child melancholic?
Child-melancholic - the type, which is almost never heard and not seen. If the parents are busy with some important things, the baby himself will find something and be in business as long as an adult is required. Seclusion, restraint and caution, silent speech, peace, vulnerability and high sensitivity - typical features of a typical melancholic.
This child can hurt a word, you do not even need to raise it voice or scold for something. They are very impressionable and can often see small eyes filled with tears.
At the same kids from an early age have empathy, they are not alien to regret something other than a frustrated child, feed and pet a stray dog or cat. Do not be surprised if your offer to buy a new toy crumbs, he refused and instead ask for a bun or a slice of bread to feed the birds in the street.
The child-melancholic feels the black sheep in any group, whether peers or older / younger children around him. For this reason, I prefer solitude and loneliness. They are very difficult to make new friends and make friends with other kids, since by virtue of their emotional sensitivity is difficult to agree with anyone. Usually a small representative of the facial features is a single one - most often this role is mum with which baby feels confident and protected, he can tell her all my secrets and experiences. Psychologists say incredibly deep inner world of the melancholic. They are sometimes so reasonable, that it seems as if there is communication with the child and an adult. At these often say "little adult" man. They are characterized by attention to the interlocutor, introspection, discipline. Assuming something a mistake, even a tiny and quite small, child-melancholic for a long time going through this a "failure."
We are pleased to play various games, focused on the development of memory, concentration, logical thinking. In the future, may become famous musicians, cooks, travelers, designers, photographers and even excellent psychologists or psychoanalysts.
In the education of a child-melancholic should be extremely cautious and to control their moods and emotions. It can not cry - baby just frightened and begins to turn in on themselves even more. If you notice a fascination with something, it is necessary to encourage this interest. Praise, sincere interest, support, some joint activities will give a crumb of self-confidence and an even stronger push it to the initiated proceedings. Properly formed in childhood self-esteem allows in the future to achieve good heights and even well soar through the ranks. It is important to instill in early childhood understanding of what is wrong in the lives of every man, there is nothing terrible and reprehensible, because any mistake can be corrected if desired.
It is very difficult to go through a period of habituation and adaptation to the new. For example, the first encounter with a kindergarten must begin long before the moment when the plan begins to attend pre-school institution. The child can be brought to the site, a walk on the territory, to talk about how there is good and interesting. Can be several times to come while the kids play in the street, the kid saw what was fun. The first days of visitation should not be more than 1-2 hours, otherwise you run the risk, on the contrary, to develop the kid obviously negative attitude to kindergarten.